I generally don't like to hear about my exs who choose not to stay friends after the relationship.
Yea, I know I have this innate need to move past the nastiness and the fighting and be friends again.
It's probably trite to some, but for me, becoming friends is really part of the whole healing process.
Hell, we were good friends to begin with, so just because love and friendship didn't mix well, doesn't mean it's got the end there. I'm still in touch with 2, both from my teenaged years, heck I even became housemates with a boyfriend from when I was 17, during my 1 semster doing my post grad. It was good fun, wasn't just the 2 of us of course, there were other housemates, plus I was seeing someone then and he trusted me, God bless his soul, and I knew my place. But thing is, we were really over our time as a couple and began to enjoy, once again, the joy of the friendship pre relationship that brought us together in the first place.
Anyway, I'm really just waffling on, I just got a text from my old housemate, telling me she bumped into an ex. To be quite honest, since we chose not to remain friends, I'm seriously not interested to know. So please, do not see the need to update me on sightings of the exs who aren't friends anymore, unless it's something really extraordinary or tragic.
Yea, I know I have this innate need to move past the nastiness and the fighting and be friends again.
It's probably trite to some, but for me, becoming friends is really part of the whole healing process.
Hell, we were good friends to begin with, so just because love and friendship didn't mix well, doesn't mean it's got the end there. I'm still in touch with 2, both from my teenaged years, heck I even became housemates with a boyfriend from when I was 17, during my 1 semster doing my post grad. It was good fun, wasn't just the 2 of us of course, there were other housemates, plus I was seeing someone then and he trusted me, God bless his soul, and I knew my place. But thing is, we were really over our time as a couple and began to enjoy, once again, the joy of the friendship pre relationship that brought us together in the first place.
Anyway, I'm really just waffling on, I just got a text from my old housemate, telling me she bumped into an ex. To be quite honest, since we chose not to remain friends, I'm seriously not interested to know. So please, do not see the need to update me on sightings of the exs who aren't friends anymore, unless it's something really extraordinary or tragic.